Events & Workshops
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How It Works
We design immersive IRL & Virtual Erotic Spaces for groups and individuals, featuring facilitated experiences ranging from educational to explicitly sexual.
Blending play, pleasure, and creativity for a wide spectrum of people.
Choose your own adventure.
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Everyone is screened, age-verified and vetted.
You’ll receive our code of conduct, consent guidelines, and advice on security and anonymity based on the event.
Get dressed up, for
Virtual Events:
Decorate your background, and arrange your computer, camera, and/or microphone.
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Everyone attends the event's introduction, and no new participants are allowed in after that.
Virtual Events:
We use the “lock” feature to “close the doors.”
We use individual links (Registration required), waiting rooms, and watermarks to increase security.
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Each forLove event consists of a series of rooms that you can navigate between. Choose your own adventure based on your level of comfort.
Virtual Events:
You access each room via a private, invite-only section of this website.
Some rooms are locked for short periods during the event to create more privacy and intimacy.
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Sexy story shares and erotica readings
Guided sensuality sessions, in which erotic energy is consciously cultivated
Sex-themed games like Truth or Dare or Never-Have-I-Ever
Erotic self-pleasure sessions, with people taking turns touching themselves or making love while the group affirms them
Experiential workshops on kink, sexuality, and seduction
Fun and lighthearted activities like sex puppets and mystery porn theatre 3000
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Safety Leads
Each forLove event includes people dedicated to supporting you. They are available to anyone, at any time, throughout the event. You can always find them in the “Angel Room.”
Virtual Events:
They are clearly marked with the word “Safety” in their alias. You can find a safety person by going to the lounge, or primary meeting space at an event, and then messaging them to speak privately in a breakout room.
Hosts
Virtual Events:
All our rooms are facilitated by a host, with “HOST” in their alias. They:
1) Lead the activities in the room they’re in
2) Involve participants by calling on, encouraging, or affirming them
3) Maintain an atmosphere of safety and respect
Mute or remove anyone in the group who’s being disruptive.
Embrace Transition | An Exercise on Navigating Crossroads
About the Workshop:
Are you at a crossroads in your life, contemplating or amidst a major change or transition? Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships, career shifts, or personal growth, this experiential workshop facilitated by Professor Playtime of forLove, is designed to guide you through a process of reflection and renewal.
TL/DR:
🗓 Date: Wednesday, May 15th
🕠 Time: 5:30 - 7:00 pm PST
📍 Location: Online (Zoom link provided with ticket purchase)
Tickets:
🎟 $35 ($25 for SuperBloom Members)
💰 'Give what you can' options available - no one turned away for lack of funds
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Who is this Workshop For?
This workshop is perfect for individuals facing significant transitions in their lives, such as those considering exploring non-monogamy within their relationships or anyone navigating a period of profound change. If you're seeking clarity, closure, and a roadmap for moving forward, this workshop is for you.
What to Expect:
Using a powerful exercise called "Storyboarding Your Life," we'll explore a particular area in your life and the journey to where you are today. Through guided reflection, you'll identify pivotal moments, celebrate achievements, and acknowledge unresolved emotions.
In the second part of the workshop, you'll learn practical techniques to clear unresolved emotions and honor your journey:
Identify: Pinpoint the moments carrying the most emotional weight.
Reflect: Explore your emotions and underlying needs without getting caught in the story.
Understand: Decode your emotions to uncover deeper insights into your values and desires.
Celebrate: Share your story with trusted individuals and celebrate your wins with a personalized ceremony.
Why Say Yes:
By participating in this workshop, you'll gain invaluable tools to navigate life's transitions with resilience and grace. You'll walk away with a newfound understanding of yourself, clarity about your needs, and a sense of empowerment to embrace the next chapter of your life fully.
How to Join:
Secure your spot now and embark on this transformative journey of self-discovery. Say yes to honoring your past, embracing your present, and stepping confidently into your future.
Don't miss out—reserve your spot today!
Self-Love By Way of The Ancestors
The quintessential workshop w/ Ifa Doyin Tamika Marie Banks covering the what, when, where, why, and how to build a connection and practice with your Ancestors as a way to deepen into Self Love.
Come to learn, come to share, come to deepen into the beauty, rawness and richness with your Ancestral heritage. Novices to Advanced practitioners welcomed.
This workshop is not for debating Spirit; those who attend agree that our Ancestors are available for connection and are looking for/willing to learn how.
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What to Expect:
🔸 Learn how to build an Ancestor Altar
🔸 Discover what/how to offer on the Ancestor Altar
🔸 Gain awareness-building tips to connect directly with your ancestors
🔸 Align your Ancestors with your Self-Love journey
Got Consent? | Maximizing Fun in Kink & Non-monogamy
Join Susan Wright, founder and Executive Director of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), for an engaging discussion on consent, best practices in kink, and the legal framework surrounding consent to kink activities.
Susan Wright has been at the forefront of advocating for the rights of adults who practice BDSM and consensual non-monogamy. Her groundbreaking research and advocacy work have had a significant impact, including clarifying that being kinky is not a mental disorder.
In this interactive discussion, Susan will share insights and best practices for effectively communicating desires and boundaries in kink relationships. Learn negotiation tips to ensure clear and enthusiastic consent from all parties involved.
360 Degree View of Ethics in the Indie Porn Industry
360 Degree View of Ethics in the Indie Porn Industry
A discussion of ethical production considerations of adult entertainment as an independent producer/creator of porn. As well as personal perspectives for people curious to know more about how to get started themselves
Releasing Sexual Shame | A Pathway to Freedom
Release Sexual Shame | A Pathway to Freedom
This workshop is designed to help you understand shame and where it comes from. You will be able to distinguish the source of shame based thinking and be able to express yourself authentically.
Healing Your Relationship to Shame will allow you to communicate your needs with love for yourself and others.
Erotic Photography | Empowering Artistic Expression
Unlock Your Artistic Potential with Erotic Photography | Empowering Artistic Expression w/ Hoku Wong
Discover the transformative power of art in a safe and inclusive environment. Join us for a hands-on workshop where you'll learn essential skills to elevate your photography practice, while respecting the boundaries and dignity of your subjects. Explore collaborative techniques, communication mastery, and practical applications to capture your vision with confidence and creativity. Sign up now to unleash your artistic potential with Erotic Photography! 🌟
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Kegel Fusion | Strength & Flexibility for Every-BODY
Welcome to "Kegel Fusion: Strength and Flexibility for Every-BODY" – a journey into the world of inclusive, pelvic floor fitness! This comprehensive workshop taught by Allison Schulte, (she/her/them/they) MFA/PTA & Founder/CEO: Pelvic Sanctuary, is designed to provide a holistic understanding of Kegel exercises, ensuring the empowerment of your pelvic health through a unique blend of strength and flexibility.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Accountability Culture | Explore the Art & Science of Restorative Conversations
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – " Accountability Culture | The Art & Science of Restorative Conversations"
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology (virtual)
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Conscious Swinging | A Journey into The New Age Of Swinging (virtual)
forLove loveSkills Presents: Conscious Swinging: A Journey into The New Age Of Swinging ft. Kiley
Embark on a transformative journey with Kiley, a leading figure in the realm of conscious swinging. In this enlightening workshop, you'll have the opportunity to explore the art of new age swinging alongside open-minded individuals. Uncover the depths of mindful and conscious relationship connections within the realm of non-monogamy, and delve into the empowered self-expression that comes with it.
This workshop is tailored for anyone intrigued by the world of swinging or non-monogamy, providing a platform to forge soul connections with like-minded individuals in a conscious and respectful manner. Discover a new dimension of intimacy and liberation within the safe and supportive environment that Conscious Swinging fosters.
Hot to Stuff Your Partner | Pegging and Strap-on Play 101 (virtual)
Back by popular demand, join us for forLove's Professor Hotmess' "How to Stuff Your Partner | Pegging & Strap-on Play 101
Dive into the world of strap-on play with Professor Hot Mess as your guide. This class will cover the basics of pegging, providing you with all the FUNdamentals needed for a pleasurable experience. Whether you're new to the idea or looking to enhance your skills, this workshop promises to be both informative and engaging.
❤️ Topics Covered:
Understanding the anatomy of pleasure
Navigating communication and consent
Exploring different types of strap-ons and accessories
Tips and techniques for a comfortable and enjoyable experience
The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology (virtual)
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
Meeting in the Dark | Non-Monogamous Speed Connections (virtual)
Brought to you by forLove, loveSkills Presents: Meeting in the Dark! Welcome to an event that goes beyond the ordinary – where connection is the main focus, and physical attraction takes a back seat. "Connecting in The Dark" is not your typical speed dating affair; it's an exploration of building intimacy without the constraints of immediate visual judgments.
We hear about the challenges our community faces when they live in places where non-monogamy is under represented. This event gives people the opportunity to connect with other non-monogamous folx across the country so that you can cultivate like-minded community.
Join me in an evening of exploration, connection, and intentional intimacy. Let's redefine the norms together!
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Sex Positive Leaders Peer Support Circle
Our Sex Positive Leaders Peer Support Groups are a space for individuals who play a vital role in sexual liberation to connect, share, and support one another. This includes organizers of play parties, intimacy and sex coaches, and anyone eager to connect with like-minded sex-positive industry leaders. Whether you're a seasoned professional or just starting out, you're welcome here.
Femmes & Thems Peer Support Circle
Our Femmes & Thems Peer Support Circles are designed for anyone who identifies as a woman, non-binary, trans, or femme. We warmly welcome individuals from all walks of life and backgrounds to join us. Whether you're seeking personal growth, a deeper sense of connection, or a space to share your experiences, these groups are for you.
forLove loveSKILLS (2 Day Erotic Workshop Series)
💫 loveSKILLS Pre-Show | Meet Your Hosts 💫
Want to get to know your hosts? Every Monday & Friday leading up to the event we will be giving you sneak peak behind the scenes access with your hosts and facilitators of our upcoming loveSKILLS.
🚨 We’re baaaaaacccckkkk!!!! 🚨
⚠️ In the grueling effort to keep Dr. Shame and their allies at bay, we must once again join forces to expand our capacity to give and receive love, intimacy and pleasure. This is your mission should you choose to accept it…
💫 For two full days we will explore a virtual erotic playground of workshops, demos, classes and more…
❤️ Join us for loveSKILLS. LoveSkills is more than a series of talks on sex, these immersive workshops offer the opportunity to learn and practice new skills in a saf(er) container with professionals.
🤓 Choose your own adventure… One ticket = 14 experiences, 15 expert facilitators, and over 18hrs of LIVE workshops. Workshops will be recorded and avail. for ticket holders only. ($4,000 offer starting at $99)
This is a space where novice explorers can raise their hands and feel welcomed to discover and harness their erotic landscape. A space where the more advanced can share skills and expand their tool belt.
Your Ticket Gives You Access to
14 unique virtual experiences all aligned around 4 tracks:
Deepening Relationships: (Your Connection w/ others)
Deconstructing Integrity & Intimacy: (Your Connection w/ Privilege)
Spirituality & Embodiment: (Your Connection w/ Yourself)
Exploring Our Kinks: (Your Connection w/ Your Edges)
>>>DEEPENING RELATIONSHIPS: If you’re looking to expand your capacity for connection to others, you’ll want to check these out.👇
Deborah Kat on Intimate Encounters| Speed Connections For the Soul
Ana Del Castillo on From Fighting to Fucking | How to Fight Well Without Wreckage
Dr. Alison Ash & Sebastian Clarke on From Pressure to Pleasure | Reclaim Your Desire
>>>DECONSTRUCTING INTIMACY & INTEGRITY: If you’re seeking resources to align your pursuit of desire with your integrity, you’ll want to check these out! 👇
Professor Playtime on How To Throw a Saf(er) Play Party | Deconstructing Consent, Care, & Accountability
Riley Parker on A 360 View of the Ethical Porn Industry
Ken Blackman on Clit Centered Sex | Challenging Traditional Pleasure Paradigms in Hetero Relationships
Travis Sigley on Accountability As Care | Understanding Nuance & Building Skill For Regulating Conversations
>>>SPIRITUALITY & EMBODIMENT: If you’re looking to connect more with your authentic, sensual self, you’ll want to check these out! 👇
Nika Cherrelle on Cum Like A Boss! | Learn How To Orgasm Entirely Without Physical Touch
Aleya Wylde on Sensual Sensorium | An Eros Centered Journey Through The Senses
Sylvie Bee on Mindful Erotic Practice | A Guided Self-Pleasure Meditation
>>>EXPLORING YOUR KINKS: If you’re hoping to explore our connection with your boundaries (and maybe even some edges 😉) you’ll want to check these out! 👇
Serena Wild Mermaid in Serena’s Cove | An Interactive Journey To a Mermaid's Erotic Freedom
Professor Hot Mess on How To Stuff Your Partner | Pegging & Strap-on Play 101
Mischa Byruck on Daddy Kink 101 | Enter The Daddyverse
Mistress Daytona on Dominance Through Surrender | Empowerment in Letting Go
Check out last years 🗣 Pre-Show to learn more about the hosts, their area of expertise and what we are all SO excited for at loveSkills.
Eventbrite password = loveyourself 👇
HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS IS FOR ME? 😬😅
⚡Are you called to join the great quest for sexual liberation? Are you ready to harness your sexy super powers? This is the space where you can expect to go deeper and expand further, wherever you are on your journey.
📝 Some things are very important to consider in your decision...
💋 THESE ARE DEEP-ASS WORKSHOPS… This space is intended to bring integrity, vulnerability, and authentic sexual expression together. This is transformative work.
⭐️ There is a little something for everyBODY…Over the weekend you’ll have the opportunity to explore your erotic appetite in a safe(er) and more accessible environment, hidden from the watching eyes of Dr. Shame.
🔥 Much like our previous gatherings, loveSKILLS will offer virtual workshop options with escalating levels of explicit activities.
💋 This year we will be opening our fortress doors for IRL invites to vetted members only. If you haven’t received an invite and would like to join in person please reach out to us at bridget@forloveparties.com.
🤫 With Dr. Shame’s forces growing we cannot risk this information getting out. For this reason you will receive private communication from our team, we ask you to keep this close.
So FUCK YES, don your sexy super hero finest and bring a sidekick. (Please honor the sacred nature of this space by ONLY inviting those fellow heroes that you can personally vouch for!)
🎟 The fortress, while technologically unparalleled, can only hold so much of our powers at one time. We must keep classes and workshops intimate. If you wish to join this mission you’ll want to act quickly, as we will be closing the doors at 125 people.
»»» Tickets
Please contribute at the level that best reflects what you can afford. That helps us maintain our generous No One Turned Away For Lack Of Funds policy.
Tickets will be on a sliding scale from $99-199 for virtual tickets & , $125 - $225 for IRL (in person)
Discounted tickets are available to volunteers.
No one turned away for lack of funds. If you need a discount due to financial hardship, we have codes available.
NEED A DISCOUNT? If you need a discount due to financial hardship, we invite you to use promo codes:
NOTAFLOF25 for a 25% discount
NOTAFLOF50 for a 50% discount
NOTAFLOF75 for a 75% discount
We LOVE to Collaborate!
Want to get paid as an equal contributor for sharing your sexy superhero skill with others? If you’re a host, educator, facilitator, sex worker, therapist/coach, or fellow organizer click the link below to connect with us.
We're collaborating with Bloom for the event!
We're collaborating with 💜 Bloom for the event!
💫 If you're feeling nervous about meeting people at loveSkills, we've got a way to help you connect with forLovelies ahead of the event.
✨ We are collaborating with the Bloom app to facilitate online connections between forLove members before and after loveSkills - you can match and chat with other forLovelies in the Bloom app when there's mutual interest!
Here's how this works:
📲 Before the event: Download the Bloom app with referral code forlove21
✅ Confirm you're attending
You'll be able to 💜 other attendees. When the 💜 is mutual, you'll be notified and can chat via the app
👩🏽❤️💋👩🏼After the event, you'll be able to see everyone that was there and opt-in to stay connected
Freaks & Geeks Prom
📚🎓✏️👩🏽🏫📎📝📒📘📓 TL/DR
📚What: Immersive Online Play Party (PG-13 to XXX experiences)
🗓️When: March 24th, 2023, Doors Open: 7PM, Homeroom (Opening Circle): 7:30 PM
Facilitated rooms from 8:30 - 11:30, Gymnasium open until 1 AM
📝Who: forLove & Bonobo members. Singles, couples, & moresomes welcome.
🎟️Tickets: Sliding scale (see below)
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🔔*Bring Bring* Incoming Announcement 🔔
Through the gossip mill we have discovered that Dr. Shame has been deep undercover as the superintendent. At prom in Dr. Shame’s world, there’s always room for Jesus on the dance floor, the punch bowl is unspiked, and no one is losing their virginity in the back of a limo.
Obviously this cannot stand, my brethren, sistren, bothren, othren and neithren of the senior class.
So we are taking back prom!
Instead of using our two fingers to measure our spaghetti straps - there’s other things we can think of to do with those fingers.
We need you to let your freak flags fly to defeat Dr. Shame with the power of pleasure, revelry and shenanigans.
We stole the keys from the janitor and will have multiple rooms open, from detention hall where all the rebels are to the band room where we know what you did at band camp! Each room will have a facilitated experiences by our perviest student council members.
And the gym will be open all night for music, sex and debauchery.
»»» Costumes
All expressions welcome, some things to consider:
What does the word “geek” or “freak” mean to you, what did it mean to you then?
Is it a character from the TV show?
Is it your classic high school trope?
Are you going full 80’s prom dress?
Or perhaps it’s in F-R-E-K kinda, freak…
You can also check out our Pinterest for more inspo!
We like to push the boundaries of social and cultural norms, with that it’s important to consider how and where certain characters may be harmful to others. We love you and all of your kinks and there are a few things we do not welcome at this party:
Cultural appropriation or stereotypes
Costumes or storylines involving non-consensual power dynamics
Ex. School security/police character arcs
Storylines that include r*pe, CNC
Feces or blood (this includes prop/costume)
»»» Volunteer Opportunity
Our brave volunteers will join us FREE on our journey to take back prom.
Our student council is seeking:
Safety Volunteer: ensure community standards & consent are upheld during the event
Emotional Support Angels: offer each other your exquisite attention
Experience Co-hosts: support our hosts, guide our guests, and model our norms
Fill out our Volunteer Form here!
»»» Host Opportunity
Are you an intimacy or sex-themed educator, performer, or facilitator?
Get paid to create experiences for a curated, sex-positive audience!
Experience creators are the heart of our events, leading guided sensuality explorations, erotic self-pleasuring sessions, and experiential workshops, and other immersive erotic experiences
Get in touch to see if its the right fit
»»» Partnership with Bonobo
We are excited to announce we will be joining forces with the Bonobo Network for this event.
"Bonobo Network is a community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships."
If you are not yet a current member of forLove or Bonobo >> get started on your applications ASAP.
»»» Tickets
Please contribute at the level that best reflects what you can afford. That helps us maintain our generous No One Turned Away For Lack Of Funds policy.
Tickets will be on a sliding scale from $35-$55 for PrimeMates, our premium members.
Tickets for our standard members will be on a sliding scale starting at $45.
Discounted tickets are available to volunteers.
No one turned away for lack of funds. If you need a discount due to financial hardship, we have codes available.
NEED A DISCOUNT? If you need a discount due to financial hardship, we invite you to use promo codes:
NOTAFLOF25 for a 25% discount
NOTAFLOF50 for a 50% discount
NOTAFLOF75 for a 75% discount
If you need a complimentary ticket, please email info@bonobonetwork.com to make a request.
Our policy is NOTAFLOF GAYAABAGS, which (besides being kinda fun to say!) stands for No One Turned Away For Lack of Funds Give As You Are Able But Always Give Something. And we fucking mean "something".
Maybe that might be a buck. Or maybe it's some sort of volunteer labor. But there are many kinds of labor ~ giving emotional labor to the party is super duper valuable and helpful! So is giving a joke, or some sort of erotic spectacle. Or a wee bit of magick or a powerful word to describe a concept the overculture has no word for. There may be voyeurs here, but there are no spectators. There may be Dominants here, but there are no bosses. We have no idea what your "something" might be, but you might! Or you might discover it in the moment.
We are all making this party happen together; that's what makes immersive theater different from stage theater! So, please, come if you want to come (or just edge, if that's where you get your juice!) and don't worry if your something has a number attached or is amorphous or whatever. We want you to party with us, and whatever something you give will be awesome!
Destigmatizing STI Converstations
NOTE: One of 3 December classes. If this day/time doesn’t align check out some of the upcoming dates.
In western cultures STI and STD’s have been severely stigmatized. In reality if you are a sexually active human, exposure to an STI/STD is a statistical enevitability. This misinformation and shame based rhetoric has led to far too much harm, confusion and pain.
Unfortunately, not having the conversation is only putting each of us further at risk. We need to destigmitize the conversation around STI and sexual health practices in order to create a world where it is saf(er) to be sexually liberated.
So let’s talk about how we can move away from shame based STI conversations and towards collaborative and compassionate informed consent...
This is a 1.5hrs workshop where we’ll discuss and apply practical skills for:
❣️ Discussing our sexual health practices
❣️ Setting clear boundaries
❣️ Disclosing an Active STI/STD status
❣️ Receiving an Active STI/STD status
Destigmatizing STI Converstations
NOTE: One of 3 December classes. If this day/time doesn’t align check out some of the upcoming dates.
In western cultures STI and STD’s have been severely stigmatized. In reality if you are a sexually active human, exposure to an STI/STD is a statistical enevitability. This misinformation and shame based rhetoric has led to far too much harm, confusion and pain.
Unfortunately, not having the conversation is only putting each of us further at risk. We need to destigmitize the conversation around STI and sexual health practices in order to create a world where it is saf(er) to be sexually liberated.
So let’s talk about how we can move away from shame based STI conversations and towards collaborative and compassionate informed consent...
This is a 1.5hrs workshop where we’ll discuss and apply practical skills for:
❣️ Discussing our sexual health practices
❣️ Setting clear boundaries
❣️ Disclosing an Active STI/STD status
❣️ Receiving an Active STI/STD status
Destigmatizing STI Converstations
NOTE: One of 3 December classes. If this day/time doesn’t align check out some of the upcoming dates.
In western cultures STI and STD’s have been severely stigmatized. In reality if you are a sexually active human, exposure to an STI/STD is a statistical enevitability. This misinformation and shame based rhetoric has led to far too much harm, confusion and pain.
Unfortunately, not having the conversation is only putting each of us further at risk. We need to destigmitize the conversation around STI and sexual health practices in order to create a world where it is saf(er) to be sexually liberated.
So let’s talk about how we can move away from shame based STI conversations and towards collaborative and compassionate informed consent...
This is a 1.5hrs workshop where we’ll discuss and apply practical skills for:
❣️ Discussing our sexual health practices
❣️ Setting clear boundaries
❣️ Disclosing an Active STI/STD status
❣️ Receiving an Active STI/STD status
OnlyFantasies - Private Event
🎬✨🎭 Ready, set, go in for some hot action!
✨WHAT: Invite only play party + fundraiser
🌀WHEN: June 18-19
♠ WHY: Mark your calendars because immersive art has never been sexier. Introducing our muti-layered, er0tic adventure designed to turn fantasies into reality.
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❤️OnlyFantasies is about bringing the expansive, creative nature of the digital world into real life. Can we gami-fy reality? It is also a place to own your desire and explore your wildest fantasies.
💫We are co-creating this play party with fellow sexy dreamers. The space will feature multiple rooms facilitated by different artists w/ unique set designs, immersive art and interactive experiences. Does this sound exciting? We are accepting proposals for rooms so get in touch here.
💌This is a carefully curated INVITE ONLY EVENT. Please get in touch with one of the organizers if you’d like to attend.
Events like these fund our ability to expand our mission to bring equitable, privilege aware, and trauma informed spaces for sexual liberation to all bodies.
In honor of Juneteenth and in alignment with our advocacy for social justice, we will be donating 10% of proceeds.
forLove loveSKILLS (2 Day Virtual Erotic Workshop Series)
Password: loveyourself
💫loveSkills Pre-Show | Meet Your Hosts💫
🚨 Calling all heroes… it’s time for your training! 🚨
⚠️ In the grueling effort to keep Dr. Shame and their allies at bay, we must once again join forces to expand our capacity to give and receive love, intimacy and pleasure. This is your mission should you choose to accept it…
💫 From all across the multiverse we will gather, hidden behind the digital walls of our secret fortress. For two full days we will explore an erotic playground of virtual workshops, demos, classes and more…
❤️ Join us for loveSKILLS, a gathering which honors the power of being witnessed, affirmed in your expression and is above all an opportunity for the individual heroes' process.
🤓 Choose your own adventure… 15 different leaders with 14 unique experiences. This is a space where novice heroes can raise their hands and feel welcomed to discover and harness their sexy super powers. A space where the more advanced Avengers can share skills and expand.
✨For these two days you can give yourself permission to feel a sense of belonging in your uniqueness.
Your Ticket Gives You Access to
14 unique experiences all aligned around 4 hero tracks:
Deepening Relationships: (Your Connection w/ others)
Deconstructing Integrity & Intimacy: (Your Connection w/ Privilege)
Spirituality & Embodiment: (Your Connection w/ Yourself)
Exploring Our Kinks: (Your Connection w/ Your Edges)
Want to get to know your hero-hosts? Starting Monday Dec. 20th, we will be giving you a sneak peak behind the scenes of our upcoming erotic weekend.
Check out the 🗣 Pre-Show to learn more about the hosts, their area of expertise and what we are all SO excited for at loveSkills.
Eventbrite password = loveyourself 👇
HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS IS FOR ME? 😬😅
⚡Are you called to join the great quest for sexual liberation? Are you ready to harness your sexy super powers? This is the space where you can expect to go deeper and expand further, wherever you are on your journey.
📝 Some things are very important to consider in your decision, heroes...
💋 THESE ARE DEEP-ASS WORKSHOPS… This space is intended to bring integrity, vulnerability, and authentic sexual expression together. This is transformative work.
⭐️ There is a little something for everyBODY…Over the weekend you’ll have the opportunity to explore your erotic appetite in a safe(er) and more accessible environment, hidden from the watching eyes of Dr. Shame.
🔥 Much like our previous hero gatherings, loveSKILLS will be a virtual with escalating levels of explicit activities.
💋 For the FIRST TIME EVER we are opening the doors of our secret fortress to those who are eager to learn more about their super powers on their personal path to sexual liberation.
🤫 With Dr. Shame’s forces growing we cannot risk this information getting out. For this reason you will receive private communication from our team of heroes, we ask you to keep this close.
So FUCK YES, don your sexy super hero finest and bring a sidekick. (Please honor the sacred nature of this space by ONLY inviting those fellow heroes that you can personally vouch for!)
🎟 The fortress, while technologically unparalleled, can only hold so much of our powers at one time. We must keep classes and workshops intimate. If you wish to join this mission you’ll want to act quickly, heroes.
NOTE: we will not turn anyone away for financial reasons, if you are called to join and unable to pay at this time please email your fellow heroes at team@forloveparties.com for other options.
We LOVE to Collaborate!
Want to get paid as an equal contributor for sharing your sexy superhero skill with others? If you’re a host, educator, facilitator, sex worker, therapist/coach, or fellow organizer click the link below to connect with us.
We're collaborating with Bloom for the event!
If you're feeling nervous about meeting people at gathering, we've got a way to help you reconnect with forLovelies ahead of the event. We are collaborating with forLove member Luna Ray and the Bloom app to facilitate online connections between forLove members before and after loveSkills - you can match and chat with other forLovelies in the Bloom app when there's mutual interest!
Here's how this works:
Before the event: Download the Bloom app with referral code forlove21
Confirm you're attending
You'll be able to 💜 other attendees. When the 💜 is mutual, you'll be notified and can chat via the app
After the event, you'll be able to see everyone that was there and opt-in to stay connected
Comment below that you’re in so other people who want to meet you will sign up
If you are already a member of Bloom you’ll also need to click the download link to get the invite to the event. If you’re having any issues, comment below or ping Luna Ray.
PRIDE forLove Picnic 💙💚💛💜🧡❤️
OK lovelies! Who is ready? It’s been a year of immersive pleasurable virtual fun… but who is ready to add some definition and some shape to this community?
Let’s get off screen and get 3D! What better way than some casual social distance fun in the sun? Let’s get to know each other in a laid back atmosphere and some funky music.
June is LGBTQ+ Pride Month. Let's show our support and bring together our LGBTQ+ members and allies to celebrate individuality, diversity, inclusivity, community, and most importantly, love! Let’s celebrate Pride together and everything that it stands for! Show your true colors and wear rainbows or just plain out fabulousness for support.
👇 RSVP BELOW 👇
BYOE & Leave NO Trace - bring your own everything - blanket, chair, shade, food, cup, beverages, sanitizer, etc…
Current guidelines in San Francisco: Face coverings are not required when you are fully vaccinated, if you are with small groups of fully vaccinated friends, if you are with 1 unvaccinated household who is at low risk of getting COVID-19 or if you are dining outdoors.
Use your negotiation skills to discuss physical contact or anything near your vicinity - only with enthusiastic consent may you proceed.
Please wear your masks if you are within six feet of people who are not in your pod or have not given you absolute consent.
We will be providing name tags to identify each other… because not all of us are good with faces, we may look different in 3D and partially covered with masks doesn’t make it any easier!
👉 Do you have friends that are interested in checking out forLove? Little ones and fur-babies are welcome! Bring them!!
👉 Not a member yet? Interested in connecting with the community? Sign up for our mailing list when you RSVP below!
👉 We request that you don’t share this event on public event calendars!
We can’t wait to see all of your IRL lovely (masked) faces!
How To Find Us! 👇
Look for the forLove signs.
Hellman Hollow, 800 John F. Kennedy (JFK) Drive San Francisco, CA 94121
Hellman Hollow spreads out along the south side of JFK Drive, just west of Transverse Drive (off 25th Avenue).
👇 RSVP HERE 👇
We're collaborating with Bloom to help break the ice at the picnic!
If you're feeling nervous about meeting people at our picnic, we've got a way to help you reconnect with forLovelies ahead of the event. We are collaborating with forLove member Luna Ray and the Bloom app to facilitate online connections between forLove members before and after our picnic - you can match and chat with other forLovelies in the Bloom app when there's mutual interest!
Here's how this works:
Before the event: Download the Bloom app with referral code forlove21
Confirm you're attending
You'll be able to 💜 other attendees. When the 💜 is mutual, you'll be notified and can chat via the app
After the event, you'll be able to see everyone that was there and opt-in to stay connected
Comment below that you’re in so other people who want to meet you will sign up
If you are already a member of Bloom you’ll also need to click the download link to get the invite to the event. If you’re having any issues, comment below or ping Luna Ray.
forLove Open Hour
Let’s Hang!
Ready to just relax with your forLove community? Curious and want to learn more?
Great!
Connect with your fellow members! If you’re new to our community or just want to spend some quality time in a fun, safe and supportive space, this is your moment.
Non-members welcome! Have some friends you think might be great additions to this community? Invite them too!
Please only attend if you’re a member or a friend of one! (Your referral doesn’t need to be there too, just let us know who they are when you show up.)
What to expect
This is a low-pressure, loosely structured community hang out on Zoom that we’ll be offering monthly. Clothes on, nothing explicit, and no truth or dares or anything that might put anyone on the spot.
Members will be there to bond, hangout, and relax with each other. forLove team members will be there to answer questions and facilitate.
No preparation required. Come as you are, drop-in anytime, and stay for as long as you want.
Link coming soon.